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Trauma-informed guidance for understanding, reporting, and healing from clergy sexual abuse. Each article is written with compassion, respect for your journey, and no pressure to take action.

Content Note: These articles discuss clergy sexual misconduct in educational terms. Content warnings are provided at the start of each article. Please read at your own pace and take breaks as needed.

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January 20268 min read
Understanding Power and Consent: Why Relationships With Clergy Are Different
If you've experienced sexual contact with a clergy member, you may be carrying questions that keep you up at night. This article offers a framework for understanding fiduciary relationships and power dynamics.
February 20269 min read
Understanding Grooming: Recognizing Patterns That Weren't Your Fault
Grooming isn't your failure to recognize danger. It's a deliberate process of building trust, creating dependency, and normalizing boundary violations. Learn to recognize the patterns.
March 20268 min read
When Reporting Doesn't Go as Expected: Understanding Institutional Responses
Many survivors report to their church or denomination expecting support, only to face dismissal, blame, or cover-up. Understanding common institutional responses can help you prepare.
April 20268 min read
You're Not Alone: Why Adult Clergy Sexual Abuse Often Stays Hidden
Sexual Assault Awareness Month brings attention to sexual violence, but adult clergy sexual abuse often stays hidden. Learn why silence feels safer and what breaking it might mean.
Evergreen 20269 min read
Five Signs of Spiritual Grooming That Survivors Often Miss
Grooming by a trusted spiritual leader is designed to be invisible — to you, to your community, and often to the abuser themselves. Here are five signs that are easy to miss, and what they mean.
Evergreen 20268 min read
Why 'Consensual' Affairs with Clergy Are Actually Abuse
The word 'affair' implies two equals who chose each other. But when one person holds spiritual authority over the other, that equality does not exist. Here is why the language matters — and what it means for survivors.
Evergreen 20268 min read
How to Talk to Your Therapist About Clergy Sexual Abuse
Finding the words to describe what happened — especially to a therapist who may not be familiar with clergy abuse — can feel overwhelming. This guide offers practical language and questions to help you start the conversation.
Evergreen 20269 min read
Understanding DARVO: How Institutions Silence Survivors
DARVO stands for Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It is one of the most common tactics used by institutions to silence survivors. Understanding it can help you recognise what is happening — and know it is not your fault.
Evergreen 202610 min read
Your Legal Rights When Reporting Clergy Sexual Abuse
If you are considering reporting clergy sexual abuse, understanding your legal rights is an important first step. This article offers a gentle, plain-language overview of your options — with no pressure to act.

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